“Whoever has ears let him hear”
“Whoever has ears, let him hear” These are words spoken by Jesus over and over in the Gospels. He says it in Matthew 11:15, Matthew 13:9, Matthew 13:43, Mark 4:9, Luke 8:8, and Luke 14:35. My thinking is it might be fairly important to Jesus to be a good listener. And this is exactly how we can be more like Him. Below you will find ten tips on how to be a better listener to show Christlike love to the people you are being called to hear.
10 Ways to be a better listener
- Make eye contact
- Ask clarifying questions
- Repeat the points the speaker said before providing your own response
- Be an active listener by nodding, smiling, or offering eyebrows of concern when appropriate.
- Don’t make mean or rude faces while they are speaking
- Listen to learn, not to just be respectful
- Don’t plan your rebuttal or gather your thoughts while they are speaking
- Wait for them to finish talking before speaking
- Don’t finish their thoughts for them
- Don’t have your phone out while you are listening